BRAVO INDONESIA ... what is it worth at Lift for our national team? hopefully the answer YES .. a long journey and they need to fight for 90 minutes to reach one word that is WIN, irfan bachdim and friends gave the victory that greatly miss the people of Indonesia after nearly years nasionall Indonesia football team is in the shadow of Thailand.
I believe that's pride began to emerge in the minds of the people of Indonesia now, why not? after we won 3 times in a row at AFF Cup, it's certainly a proud achievement after almost a few years of Indonesian football accomplishments fell sharply.
Once again let us give congratulations .. what is not yet time for us to congratulate because Indonesia has not been a champion in this tournament? let us pray together in the semi-final against Indonesia Philippines will win, and said good-we could really scream and give to irfan bahcdim and friends in the Indonesian national team.
Not infrequently why at the time was giving an opinionit even does not match and received by friends to chat, even could be disconnected with the topic being discussed now were talking, you probably would have ever experienced and certainly does not make your friend comfortable conversation while chatting with you.
Not everyone is willing to accept criticism and suggestions, what else at the moment that person is in need of your opinion whether it is in the trying times, happy or in all circumstances.
Here to note was the first we have to good at reading the situation and condition of your chat friends, feeling what your chat friends so do not feel there was a wrong number while chatting.
Secondly to listen to and consider carefully any words that you hear from your chat friends. This is important why? besides avoiding disconnectedwhile chatting, this is also a material consideration as any suggestions or feedback that you have to pass in order to be received well by your chat friends.
And this is the last thing most important that influence emotions friend you talk, because sometimes the exact opposite of what you do not want to say it even be delivered because you want to see friends chathappy just to entertain the lie. Lie for the good may not be why, but if you are already too often do, that's the most dangerous because if your friends know if you talk just wanted tojust simply entertain and give little attention to the lie, get ready for your loneliness no friends to talk anymore because he had a bad reputation as a liar ...
I hope it happens to you. Maybe it's just that I can convey at this time ... I am waiting for suggestions and criticism are very meaningful and important to me, To be able to continue giving his best friend bloggers.
Thank you
Without you realize why friends, relatives, or people around you are lazy or unwilling to make your chat friends. Is there something wrong with you? or you include people who are not good for the chat? or you include people who can not save your chat secret friends? you are not among the criteria that I mentioned above.
Here are some tips from me so you can be a good listener:
1. Must be genuinely interested in chatting with your friends, make friends chatted as if the problem you are your own problems, so you can remote into to understand and feel like you're experiencing the real thing.
2. Honest about the adequacy of your time, for enough time talking to completion according to the time you have, do not get in the middle of the chat you say excuse me or so out of focus because your mind is not entirely in your chat friends.
3. Using eye contact, with your eye contact is the bond seriousness of your self. Eye contact shows focus on what you convey friends chatting.Look more deeply, understand what your friends are chatting sad, angry, disappointed, jealous and share other feelings that may be hidden from the word he said.
4. Reduce distractions, get rid of the mobile phone you are carrying, to avoid interruption of communication because you receive a call.
5. Do not corrected the speaker, maybe you want another opinion, do not like,
6. Hold your desire to argue with, yet when you talk to her, because you as a listener Do not forget, ask questions, because to ask means you really really to feel and understand what's chat your friends are talking about.
Maybe it was just a few suggestions that I convey to you, hopefully useful.
Thank you
