Here are some tips from me so you can be a good listener:
1. Must be genuinely interested in chatting with your friends, make friends chatted as if the problem you are your own problems, so you can remote into to understand and feel like you're experiencing the real thing.
2. Honest about the adequacy of your time, for enough time talking to completion according to the time you have, do not get in the middle of the chat you say excuse me or so out of focus because your mind is not entirely in your chat friends.
3. Using eye contact, with your eye contact is the bond seriousness of your self. Eye contact shows focus on what you convey friends chatting.Look more deeply, understand what your friends are chatting sad, angry, disappointed, jealous and share other feelings that may be hidden from the word he said.
4. Reduce distractions, get rid of the mobile phone you are carrying, to avoid interruption of communication because you receive a call.
5. Do not corrected the speaker, maybe you want another opinion, do not like,
6. Hold your desire to argue with, yet when you talk to her, because you as a listener Do not forget, ask questions, because to ask means you really really to feel and understand what's chat your friends are talking about.
Maybe it was just a few suggestions that I convey to you, hopefully useful.
Thank you
